A good relationship is not completely defined by how someone makes you feel, but is enhanced by setting standard that demands that you are treated with respect at all times!
Before we can invite anyone new into our lives, we have to establish a baseline of love and respect for ourselves before we begin extending any invitation. If we do not establish a solid base of self-love, it can sometimes alter our judgment and ultimately attract and allow the wrong people to enter our lives!
A good relationship begins with settings high expectations and standards for what you establish to be worthy enough to come into our lives. This means that if you see any actions that do not meet your standards or expectations, then it is vital to walk away from that person or environment immediately.
The biggest question that you have to ask yourself, is how do I define a good relationship. Understanding how to answer this question, will give you the building blocks to create the standards and expectations you are going to set.
Here are a few questions that you can use to begin your journey. What are the intentions of the person or group you just met? What do you have in common with them? Do their words match their actions? How do they treat other people that are around you? What are they passionate about? How do they respond to stress? Do you feel at ease around them? Does this person inspire or motivate you?
This list is just an example of a few questions that you can ask, so feel free to add more questions as they come to you. Once you get the answers to these questions, it will start to paint a picture of who this person is and if they are capable of creating a good relationship.
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